When your judgement of one another is too great, it stands like a wall obstructing the detail, complexity, and potential that exists within and amongst individuals.
Beware of the danger judgement holds for good living.
Allow people to live their lives and be present to support if asked, but otherwise use an attitude of interest and curiosity as people's lives play out over time.
Judgement is a too high wall that prevents the good living possible. Beware of this danger.