Letting Someone Go
It's not my nature to let another person fall. In fact, I look for every way I can to help an individual, but sometimes you can help too much and that help becomes enabling. Sometimes you have to let someone fall on hard times a bit to learn important lessons of generosity, support, care, kindness, and hard work. When you love someone, you want the best for them and you never want to see them face challenge. Yet, there are some challenges we all need to face on our own to grow up, get smart, and learn. Sometimes to love well is to give people the space they need to become who they need and want to be on their own--to let them work out their challenges by themselves.