We are all weak in some areas of life. Our weaknesses come from our inherent traits, experiences, context and capacity. As we age, we become more and more aware of our weaknesses and do what we can to work against those nagging and sometimes unchangeable attributes.
Some of our weaknesses are clear for the world to see and judge and others are hidden. No one wants to be weak, but we all experience this challenge in life.
So what do we do about it?
Honesty
I am a fan of honesty when it comes to weaknesses. I think it's okay to say, "I'm sorry, but that's a weakness I have." You may admit that it is a weakness you are working to overcome or it's a weakness that you'll always have. Whatever the case, I believe that admitting your weaknesses at times when that truth is needed is the right thing to do.
Work to your strengths
While we are all weak in some areas of life, it's best not to perseverate over those weaknesses, but instead work to your strengths.
Overcome your weaknesses if possible
Some weaknesses are permanent, but many can be overcome if you make the time and find the needed supports by way of places, actions, and people. I've been inspired by people who have overcome grave weaknesses by altering their lifestyles to make themselves stronger--this is particularly difficult to do if your weakness requires you to go against societal norms or popular culture. For example, a teen with a drug or alcohol problem has to be very strong to work against that problem in a popular culture where drinking and drugs are prevalent. To overcome our weaknesses, we first have to identify what those weaknesses are, and then find the information and supports needed to overcome those shortcomings.
Be empathetic of others' weaknesses
Recently I was in a situation when someone's very visible weakness was apparent. Some in the crowd were judgemental of that weakness. I ached as I watched the situation because I know that person must face terrible prejudice due to her weakness time and again. We have to be empathetic to the weaknesses that people have, and work in ways that make our communities more helpful and empathetic to those who display any kind of weakness. To mock, ridicule, judge, or blame people for their weaknesses only exasperates the struggle those weaknesses bring to their lives and our communities.
There's much to do to make ourselves more compassionate, empathetic, helpful, and strong in the face of our own weaknesses and the weaknesses of others. This is a good talking point for groups of people who care about one another and their communities.