The landscape changed quickly. What worked before now seems less important, and it's time to review the life landscape and rethink the daily routine to care for others. What's needed now?
A good routine
In the past year, a good routine meant keeping our heads above water in some situations. Now that those situations are more steady, it is about keeping a good daily routine including rest, nutritious simple foods, clean clothes, a tidy house, companionship and entertainment too.
The right clothes
The right clothes make a big difference for people. If they have clothes that fit well and are easy to take care of that can make life easier especially for people who struggle with their daily routine. It's good to cull the clothes collection regularly as well as to buy a few new items to brighten up the wardrobe.
Simplify
Too-full cabinets, closets and drawers can be confusing for many. To cull the items in those places can make it easier for people to live independently with happiness and ease.
Regular supports
A weekly routine of good supports can greatly uplift a person's quality of living. Those supports will differ from person to person. People may need housekeepers, financial assistants, cooks, recreation partners and more. Identifying the needed supports and establishing a regular routine of those supports can greatly improve one's lifestyle.
Independence
People at all stages of life typically desire independence, The path to independence differs from stage to stage. For some it may mean moving to their own banking/checking accounts from shared accounts, and for others it may mean moving from their own accounts to shared accounts that have oversight. There are all kinds of good supports that help people achieve a good level of independence, and to consider independence for each indivdual and the supports needed is a good way to care for people.
Joy
Joy is an essential ingredient in life. For every individual, joy arrives in unique ways. Consider what brings those you care for joy, and make sure to repeat those activities and supports regularly. For example, recently I turned of a loved one's TV and replaced the sound with music from significant eras of their life. I found this switch brought more calm and peace to the environment. Joy comes to life in many ways, and it's important to consider sources of joy for each individual you support, care for, work/live with and love.
Collaboration and Celebration
How do you work together with the people you support and care for? When do you celebrate? These are important questions to consider too as you think about what people need. Celebrations are often destinations we can work with our loved ones to prepare for and engage in--these celebrations bring joy and camaraderie. Collaborating around projects and events also brings closeness and care with and for one another.
Auditing the care you give to others as well as the camaraderie you enjoy is a good way to take stock of what people need and how you can help them. That's what I'll be doing today.