What is etiquette? I looked up the definition:
I was moved to think about this topic when an impolite gesture upset me recently. After I experienced the gesture, I thought about the times, I may have hurt others with impolite gestures or acts. To be aware of expected etiquette or polite behavior helps all of us to get along and promote the best of one another rather than the worst.
So as we begin the summer season of celebrations and fun, it's good to revisit some of the rules of etiquette that often come to play during such a social season.
Stick with your first invitation
Sometimes another invitation comes along after you've already accepted a first invitation. The rules of etiquette tell you to stick with the first invitation. This is an important rule.
Don't share the news of party or celebration with people who are not invited
It's typically impolite to share the news of a get together with others if they are not invited. Sometimes this is okay if the group you are inviting clearly belongs to a particular category that might not include others. For example, if you're traveling with close family members, it's unlikely that a friend would feel bad if he or she was not invited. Yet, in most cases, it's polite not to share news of expected plans with those who are not invited.
If you don't have anything good to say, don't say anything
In general, keeping our communication positive positive is best.
Reciprocate
Don't expect others to always entertain you. Instead, make sure you reciprocate. Of course, there will be situations when this is impossible or difficult.
There are lots of rules of etiquette, and when in doubt, it's good to refer to those rules rather than guess about what people will expect. That creates a more peaceful, positive climate. Onward.