I realize that I've written about this topic many times, but I am continually amazed at the great many variations that exist with relation to how to live a good life. There's clearly no one way and as I look aroud at the many people I know, I see all kinds of lifeways, lifeways created by interest and circumstances. No two of us are met with the exact same circumstances or interests as another, and that fact leads us to lives that vary in all kinds of ways.
Physicality
The way we look, the strength of our bodies, and our health play a role in the lives we lead. If you have more popular looks, you'll likely be treated a bit differently than if you have less popular looks. Your health concerns, age, and physical strength will likely impact the choices you make and how you spend your time too. While we can't let our physicality greatly limit who we are, we do have to acknowledge the impact of physicality in our lifeways.
Family
The people in your family as a child and as you age impact your life too. For example, I have a very large extended family. That has impacted how I spend my time since I attend a lot of family events and over time, I've had a lot of family responsibilities too. Others have very small families or may not be close to family members, and in situations like that, people tend to create families with friends.
Relationships
Who we connect with officially and unofficially affect the lives we lead too. Who we choose and who chooses us as partners, friends, and neighbors affect who we are and who we become.
Career
The careers you choose also impact your life. Your career, in part, determines your finances, associates, schedule, questions, learning and more. Choosing a career that matches your spirit, interests, questions, and drive is valuable.
Interests
I believe we are born with interests and also gain interests throughout life. Our interests lead us to the places we live, the experiences we seek, and the people we know.
Background
Your background in terms of where you lived, who you lived with, who you know, and the big events in the lives of the people in your life and in your early life do affect who you are, but your background doesn't have to limit who you become.
In general, so many factors affect who we are, how we live our lives, and who we become. It's good to acknowledge this reality and to use that knowledge to meet your life and the lives of others with the respect deserved. Onward.