Over time I have had a small number of broken relations. In one case, there was repair and that repair had a lot to do with a person's positive actions. Though the relationship was shattered at one point, later on, that person demonstrated true kindness, care, and commitment thus repairing the relationship. In the other cases, that didn't happen. I made efforts to repair those connections with communication and invitations, but it was clear up until now that the other sides do not share a will to reconnect. Sadly, the reality of life is that some relationships do break for all kinds of reasons. The break-ups are typically painful, but fortunately there are typically far more relationships that remain strong and loving in your life.
We have to tread gently with one another. We have to listen to each other's words, be sensitive to each other's challenges, and mindful of each person's individual path in life. None of us have simple paths--everyone has their struggles and strengths, good times and bad. When you've lived long enough, you see that and experience that.
The holidays often highlight broken relations. You think back to the good times you shared, the positive memories of the past with some nostalgia and regret. You wish the break-up didn't happen, but then you see how the union was heavily challenged by all kinds of experiences, perspectives, and events.
We can learn from our broken relations and work to move on with fewer break-ups and greater relational strength with those you love, serve, and care about. It is a good direction with which to greet situations like this. Onward.
We have to tread gently with one another. We have to listen to each other's words, be sensitive to each other's challenges, and mindful of each person's individual path in life. None of us have simple paths--everyone has their struggles and strengths, good times and bad. When you've lived long enough, you see that and experience that.
The holidays often highlight broken relations. You think back to the good times you shared, the positive memories of the past with some nostalgia and regret. You wish the break-up didn't happen, but then you see how the union was heavily challenged by all kinds of experiences, perspectives, and events.
We can learn from our broken relations and work to move on with fewer break-ups and greater relational strength with those you love, serve, and care about. It is a good direction with which to greet situations like this. Onward.