Last night my sister and I were recounting family reunions in the mountains over the years. We were having difficulty remembering distinctly how each year was different, the 50 years of gathering in the mountains were melding together with certain highs and lows more prominent in our minds.
Some of the highlights of these reunions included these events:
- The first time each person ascended Mt. Washington, the highest peak in the northeast.
- The nicest trails, views, weather
- The most challenging hikes
- The best lodging - good spaces with views were high on the list
- The best parties - weather was a big factor here since our large family loves to spread out, play games, and enjoy good food
- Stories of struggle and triumph related to individual trips
Low points typically involved the coordination needed to get everyone up to the mountains, find suitable lodging, challenging weather, personal factors that prohibited people from taking part, and of course, 2020 COVID-19 limitations.
As we recounted the many highs and lows of this 50-years of family reunions, we clearly agreed that this is a tradition we want to continue in the years ahead. I'm sure that we'll do this a little bit differently every year, but it is likely that reunions will include the following events each time:
- Early winter planning with regard to dates and rentals--we typically rent large homes for each family or secure lodging at inns or local motels
- One challenging hike for all who can do that, and one less challenging hike or outdoor adventure that almost everyone can do.
- One big family pot-luck when everyone gathers to share food, play games, and tell stories.
- Open invitation to any family member and friend - this was not possible during COVID-19 due to social distancing rules and the threat of viral spread.
These reunions give you pause for reflection as you see new generations engaging in activities that you once did. For example, I am not able to do the big hike now, but as I watched the young 20-somethings embark on the journey, I had flashbacks to my past ascents. I also love seeing new friends and family members enjoy the reunion--a healthy tradition my dad started so long ago. We also always add new hikes and adventures each year. For example, this year my brother suggested a cascade hike that was beautiful and enjoyed by all. We also stayed on the banks of a river for the first time and it was fun to play in the river.
No reunion will be perfect. There will always be some drama and unexpected events, but it's an important family tradition to continue, a tradition that was a gift my dad gave to all of us as young children and one I hope to share with my grandchildren and relatives throughout the years ahead. Onward.