Humans are not perfect. We know that. We also know that Voltaire's sage advice, "Perfect is the enemy of good" is of great value. Yet, what do we do in the face of imperfection--how do we counter that? What is good enough?
As I embark on my cooking learning adventure, I find myself saying often, good enough. Yet, what mindsets and systems do we use when we face imperfection in ourselves and others--how do we use imperfection as a catalyst for better.
Reflection, analysis, and review are key ingredients for betterment. Typically during and after a holiday, I analyze what worked and what did not work as well. I make plans for improving our holiday in the year ahead. I find this process works for any endeavor. Taking a few minutes or, if needed, significant time after an event to reflect on that event and make plans for betterment is valuable. If you wait until next year to do this, you'll forget many critical details and ideas.
As far as imperfection in others, this is a more sensitive area. Who are we to point out deficits in others? Of course, that depends on who the person is. Recently a loved one demonstrated a challenge--it was difficult to see. I did not speak up, but instead observed the behavior. Later, at an opportune time, I shared a few words to prompt betterment. I shared the words with sensitivity and my own story of a similar challenge. I was happy to see my loved one acknowledge the challenge, and change his ways. I think we can speak up and offer advice and support, but how and when we do that matters a lot.
None of us are perfect. Dealing with imperfection and the will for betterment is a steady focus of life for those who will to live good lives. I will continue to think on this subject and look forward to your wisdom as well.