Every family has its own culture. At the extremes there are families who support each other no matter what happens and there are families who don't support each other no matter what happens.
For example, no matter the criminal behavior, hate, or violence, Donald Trump's family stays close to one another. Some like me believe them to be a crime family, a mob, thugs who support one another's illegal, me-first propaganda, cheating, and corruption.
On the other hand, there are families that oppose each other no matter what happens--they never stick up for one another and always find fault with each others' decisions, work, and lifestyles.
And of course, families fall all along that continuum. It's probably best to position your family somewhere in the middle of the two extremes.
Families that support each other no matter what they do lead each other down dangerous paths of destruction. There's no one there to hold each other accountable and one bad act is added to another until the family greatly harms and disadvantages each other.
On the other hand, families that never support or stand by each other result in family members with low confidence, little support, anger, and lack of good social skills. In families like these people are always simply trying to stay positive and do what they can to survive amidst all the hate, divide, and lack of support.
Families that strike the balance are there for one another and do what they can to strengthen family members' strong points. These families also hold one another accountable with honest feedback and a willingness to tackle the rough spots in life in kind and helpful ways. These families, I believe, provide each other with a good level of support and positive critique. These families help their loved ones move into their lives with strength, confidence, and the ability to work honestly and thoughtfully with a diversity of people. These are positive families.
It's good to take time to consider the kind of family you grew up in and the kind of family you support today. Do you simply accept and support your family members' behavior no matter what they do or are you a constant critic who finds fault with family members' decisions, lifestyles, and efforts? Better yet, do you support a balanced approach and how do you do that?
This is a positive point of consideration to support your own good work going forward and that of your family members. Onward.