There seems to be so many more ways to live one's life today than when I was a child. As a child we had a limited list of similar television channels, food staples, stores to shop in, schools to go, and places to vacation. Today, we have the entire world at our fingertips. To imagine the lifestyles and choices possible is mind-boggling.
As I think of all these choices and possibilities, I am reminded that we have to rethink how we act towards and with one another with greater respect--respect with our language, our choices, and our inclusion of one another too.
What can we do to improve our levels of respect and humanity amidst this incredible menu of life choices that exist? How does this affect the celebrations we plan, the events we attend, and our communication with one another?
I believe the first step is to question more than assume. Rather than just assume the plans will work for everyone, make the time to ask people what they desire and expect. You won't be able to accommodate everyone, but in general, you'll plan events that appeal to more people in better ways.
The same is true with your language and communication, rather than assume, ask people what they desire with questions such as:
- How shall I refer to you--what titles, names, cultural identities and more do you prefer?
- What is the best way to reach you--what platform works? Do you prefer ZOOM, Facetime, a phone call, email, message or more, and what is the best time of day to reach you?
- How do you like to plan together--what process works for you best?