When challenges arise, how do you know what people need and what you can do for them?
Years ago when a good friend's sister was dying, I wasn't as sensitive as I could be. At the time, my life was full, and I had not dealt with death or loss much. In many ways I was insensitive to what my friend needed at that time. I simply did not have the awareness or empathy the situation required.
On the other hand, at a time when one of my family members was very ill, so many people reached out with warm words, food, and offers for needed support. That support was a good teacher for me--I learned a lot about empathy, care, and kindness then.
Sometimes you have what others need and sometimes you don't.
How do you know what a person needs?
It's important to be a good listener and observer at times of need. Watching and hearing gives you clues about what a person needs. Once you know, then you have to consult your time and capacity, and do what you can.
The more and better we can care for one another, the better world it will be. Stay attuned, do what you can, and have confidence that this is a right direction. Onward.