Our lives are impacted by those around us. When their lives change, our lives are affected. At times like these, we have to think about the impact these changes will have on our life, and how we will handle those impacts.
When a family member was admitted to the hospital recently, I was at first somewhat paralyzed. It was difficult to take it all in since there were so many unknowns, but now, while there are still many unknowns, I have a better grasp of the journey ahead--a journey that will affect my life somewhat and the lives of others I love even more.
What can I do?
First, I'll work with loved ones to do what we can to support our ill relative and each other as we attend to this change. And, with care and compassion, we'll likely divide up the needed jobs and support to make sure loved ones are comfortable and cared for.
That is the good we can do. Onward.