In some ways, these early, hopefully, post-pandemic days feel like coming out of a cave after a long, cold winter. And, this experience makes us a little weak kneed, blind, and foolhardy. We have to be aware of this because we don't want to falter in a way that makes a year of care a waste of time. We were careful in the past pandemic year because we value our lives and the lives of others--we abided by the limitations and safety precautions. Most of us did our part, and now in these early post pandemic days we have to remind ourselves about the good living possible and the pitfalls that may hamper or disrupt the good times ahead.
Don't drink and drive
Many will begin partying again--the end of a pandemic is a call for celebration. Many of us who experienced our first hugs and maskless get togethers with friends know how good this feels. It makes us want to celebrate, and our focus on celebration can make us forget the safety precautions needed when we may have a drink or two. The big no no here is don't drink and drive. Use an uber, stay overnight, or have a friend who has not been drinking drive you home. Every day there is a story of a life greatly harmed or taken by drunken driving. Don't do it!
Don't text and drive--put your computer devices away
Many people didn't drive much during the pandemic, and now everyone is getting back out there. Too many lives have been cut short because drivers have been fiddling with their phones and other tech devices while driving. Don't do it! Pull over if you need to use your tech device.
Don't speed
Recently while riding my bike, driving, or walking on nearby neighborhood roads, I've encountered a number of speeding vehicles. While driving, those cars that zoomed by me, eventually were even with me at the next red light--why speed? Also while riding my bike and walking, clearly those speeding vehicles presented danger to neighborhood children or people like me riding their bikes. There's no reason to speed, and speeding does kill. Don't do it!
Stay safe
Some places and some people are dangerous for all kinds of reasons. Be attuned to where you are and whom you are with--don't put yourself in harm's way. And while I wish it were not true, it's best to be with others almost everywhere. This is particularly true for women. Sadly, to be alone in many places is to put yourself in harm's way.
Retain the good from the pandemic
We all searched for silver linings to get us through the pandemic days. Most of us found some great silver linings that we want to retain post-pandemic. Make the time to think about what those silver linings were. For me, the silver linings included more intimacy with loved ones, more time at home, more walks in beautiful natural places, preparing nutritious, delicious foods, and some online connections/venues. I want to retain those silver linings.
Take your time as you emerge from a year far different than most years in our lives--adjust appopriately and safely. It is time for celebration, and let's enjoy that in positive ways.