A family member stayed by another family member's side for years--he did not give up on that individual when many probably would have given up. I watched this commitment over decades and heard the rationale for such a steadfast connection. I honored this honest, loving commitment.
I thought of this truth today as I considered the question, Should we give up on people?
I am not a fan of giving up on people, yet when people clearly demonstrate to you that they no longer desire your commitment or connection, what choice do you have? Rather than give up on people, I now prefer taking a break. In time, people may circle back to you and if they do, it's best to be there ready and willing to regain, renew, or revise the connection you once enjoyed.
Recently a friend I had moved away from due to life circumstances, was there for me when our lives intersected again. I was so happy that there were never harsh words or relationship ending resolve exchanged before, because now, at this new point in our lives, our connection was plausible, positive, and ready to rekindle.
So while our relationships will suffer the consequences of tough times and distancing life circumstances, it doesn't mean that we have to end those relationships forever. Instead, we can take time off to let each other find our ways, live our lives, and be who we are, and then if time and circumstance permit, we may find ourselves back together again. Only time will tell.