Sometimes we all feel like losers--that's part of life. What promotes that feeling?
To feel like a loser can be the result of many varied events. Perhaps during your childhood, you did not receive the nurturing you needed to be your best self. Or, maybe you got caught up with people, places, and events that took you down a challenging, troubling road. And, you may not have given yourself permission in life to figure out who you are or what truly makes you happy. Have you found your people, the place that makes you happy, or the lifestyle, work and events that bring out the best in you?
When we feel like a loser, it is a signal that we have to survey our lives and make some changes. These might be mindset changes, lifestyle changes or relationship changes.
The truth is that no one is a loser in life and that all of us feel like losers from time to time. Some probably feel like losers more than others due to multiple factors, many of which were initially out of your control.
When I feel like a loser, I do analyze the situation and make changes to remedy the situation. When others feel like losers, I ache. I always wish I could fix that problem for people, but typically the big changes in life with regard to the loser feelings have to come from the individual who experiences that feeling--they have to heed the sign to make change. The best we can do for those that feel that way is offer out help if we have what the person needs. That help could include camaraderie, specific support such as taking care of a tired mom's children, a listening ear, or more.
There's room for everyone to be a winner in life, and the key to this potential is to find out who you are and work to achieve good living for yourself and others. Onward.