How can you bring the cheer to life? Why does that matter?
Clearly, people experience struggle in life, and when struggle occurs we have no other choice but to face it. When we are mindful of our struggles and the struggles others face, we know more than ever the benefits of good cheer. And, fortunately, almost all of us have the capacity to bring cheer to our own lives and the lives of others.
How can we do that?
Acknowledge indivdiual's celebrations, significant moments, accomplishments, and sad events
Find ways to be there for one another. Our acts of recognition don't have to be excessive in any way because what is important is that we do notice what's happening with the people in our lives, and we pay our respects, provide our support, and when appropriate, celebrate those times.
Positivity
The older I get, the more I look forward to and want to model positivity. Tough times and struggle will happen, and we always have the choice to be positive. Plus positivity is contagious therefore when you're positive, it's more likely that will lead to a positive environment too.
Simplicity and flexibility
When you don't crowd your life with things and too many events, you have the simplicity, time and flexibility to be there for others. Simply being present and the ability to be responsive to the needs and desires of others definitely brings the cheer.
Don't judge, project, or conjecture
When we sit as a judge, project our own thoughts, feelings, and experiences, or conjecture rather than find out the truth of the matter, we hinder the cheer possible. Go to the source, listen to people's stories, be empathetic, and then using what you have by way of energy and potential, respond in ways that bring the cheer.
Truth and honesty
False cheer is hurtful and harmful--be truthful and honest as you positively and cheerfully support one another.
Generosity
Be as generous as you can.
In many ways we create the lives we lead, and to bring cheer to those lives is a great advantage for you and for others too. Onward.