There are times in life when your circle of activity and relationships may seem too small. That's when it is tiime to reach out and try something new. It can be daunting to push out the boundaries of a circle that has been comfortable to you, but if you're willing to risk, you may greatly enrich and better your life. How can you extend your circle.
Take care of yourself
Some people don't have a history of positive self care. This may be due, in part, to the fact that they've spent most of their lives caring for others. Making the time to give to yourself via some self help services and activities can make you feel great and connect you to new people and places. In a sense, this self care investment, can be an investment in your longevity and quality of life.
Try something new
Getting involved in a new activity that you've been interested in may connect you to new people and interests. One activity I am contemplating is taking a improvisation class--I love comedy and improv shows and I think it would be a lot of fun to learn that craft. Also, I'd love to infuse my life with more artsy, creative people since I feel a kinship to people who are interested and involved in the arts.
Generosity
Planning an event for someone else can be a great source of connection. When you make the time to plan a creative event for someone or a special event, you have the opportunity to connect to people in new and interesting ways. A friend just invited me to a girls-only event. The event will be a nice way to meet new people in a beautiful place. I want to plan some events like that.
Service work
Making a commitment to helping others is also a great source of new connections. Getting involved in an activity where you can use your strengths to make a difference is a great way to meet people.
There are many ways to broaden your circle in life, and at transition times, it's good to focus on building positive, life enriching connections that bring life the zest and interest possible.