A friend called to tell me about her family's holiday gatherings. Her story was far different from years before when her family was in the midst of strife. At that time it seemed like they would never be a strong family again, yet years later and recently, her story told of family unity, support and love. This was such good news. Why and how did that happen?
Basically, I believe what happened whas that those who desired family harmony didn't give up. They just kept trying different approaches to make it happen, and over time, those approaches worked and now many are benefitting. Family members didn't give up even though times were tough.
Too often when situations are tough, we give up too early, rather than taking a break and looking for another way to solve the problem. It's best to stay the course if you really believe in something--find supporters along the way and coach yourself too. That's important. Onward.