Sometimes people give us the cold shoulder, that means that react coldly to us. When we get the cold shoulder, it causes us to think about what may have promoted such a reaction. Our analyses may find us walking back in time to figure it out. In the best of situations with relationships we value, we need to reach out and ask about what's going on. Often we may be surprised at what has created that distance. Sometimes, what seems like a cold shoulder, may have a lot to do with other people and life events rather than us that's why it's good to find out the truth of the matter.