As a planner, I'm not the best one when it comes to unexpected pivots. I like having good plans in place, then following those plans. But, as we all know, life has a way of creating unexpected circumstances that confound the plans we make, and when that happens we have to pivot. Some people naturally are great at quickly and calmly changing plans, and then there are those of us who meet each unexpected twist and turn with a sense of surprise and frustration.
How can we prepare for those unexpected circumstances?
First, know that with every plan there's a chance that plans will change. That's why making plans with a loose-tight attitude helps. You're ready to go with the plans made, but you also know that those plans may change.
Next, as soon as the unexpected event happens, consult the facts with safety and respect in mind. What will be a safe way to change the plans? What will be a respectful way to change plans? It is always difficult to change plans particularly if those plans include an important event, but it's rarely to never a good idea to compromise safety. I remeber years ago when we missed a loved one's significant celebration due to a weather event which made the long drive dangerous. It was the right decision even though our loved one was disappointed that we couldn't be there.
After that, make new plans. If you're missing a significant event, let people know sooner than later and if possible, try to make up the miss with them in a respectful, positive way.
Pivoting in positive ways is an essential skill for most of us--one that some of us have to work a bit more at than others. Onward.