I'm really happy that someone came up with Mother's Day since so often mothers are at the busy center of life, yet not the focus of life. This one day makes everyone stop and think about the moms in their lives.
My mom
When I think of my mom, I think of her bright energy--my mom was always on the move in life. She visited friends and relatives, shopped, planned parties, did the housework, cooked the meals, drove us from place to place, talked on the phone, decorated, gave gifts and more. Mom was always active. And now, in her nineties, when she's not resting she's moving throughout her home of 57 years.
Mother-in-law's
I loved the way my mother-in-law created a great sense of family and home. I've tried to emulate so many of the ways she showed her love to us. I also watch my son's mother-in-law care for his wife and him with such love and warmth. The mothers of my other sons' loved ones similarly treat them with such kindness, care and generosity.
My aunts
I have had many aunts throughout my life. Most of those aunts were moms and those who were not moms, mothered many. All of my aunts were unique and special in their own ways, and they all mothered me from time to time. Jane taught me to ride the waves at Cape Cod. Margie shared her amazing art work. Helen had a house full of books. Margie recognized every birthday. I slept over Betty's house many times. Mary was a great listener. Miriam told wonderful stories. Ernie modeled amazing dedication to her children. Catherine, Nancy, and Jane were good friends to my mom. Patty gives great advice; and Ginny always made you feel so special.
Sister, sister-in-laws and cousins
My sister, sister-in-law and cousins have been moms to my children from time to time. My sister has fostered my family's love of adventure and sport and my sister-in-laws are always supportive with words and acts that support my sons' many events and adventures. They model great relationships with their own children too. Cousins share their talents, homes, and celebrations from time to time too.
Friends
Many friends have mothered my children and me too. They've been there when we needed an extra pair of hands, place to stay, support and care. I remember when one son was very sick some time ago, and women in the family and neighborhood pitched in to take care of my other sons. My mom's friends were always so caring and nice to me during my growing up years.
Moms are everywhere caring for their children and everyone else's children too. I'm grateful for all the love and care my family and me received from so many loving moms over the years. I only hope I can bring forth that same kind love and care as I continue to be a mom to my own sons and others in the days, months and years ahead. Onward.