I always share the regret of giving up on a relationship too soon rather than finding a right place and right time for that relationship. A friend called this morning to relay a relationship struggle. My advice was to not give up on the relationship, but instead take a bit of a break and then find the right place, right time for that relationship.
As our lives change so do our relationships, but giving up on old friends spells a loss for everyone involved. Instead recognizing the shift and where that relationship fits in terms of time and place now is a better choice. For example, if in the past you spent long spells of time together, you may now decide to go get together for a day trip instead--too much time might not be a great fit for connection at this time. Or perhaps, it's best to get together alone or with a group now whereas in the past it was always with a group or only the two of you. Finding that sweet spot for your relationships and a good pattern of get togethers can foster relationship strength over time. This is much better than giving up on each other. Onward.