As I thought about what I can do for my loved ones, I realized that the best gift I can give them right now is to be the person they want me to be. Why is this a good gift? It's a good gift because who they want me to be is good for me and good for them--it's a win-win at this point in my life. So how do I fulfill this desire?
First, specifically outline who this person is, what she does, and what she doesn't do.
Next, make a plan to arrive at that destination.
And then, stick to it.
Onward.