Often the most motivating gifts in life are the gifts we give ourselves. When we gift ourselves, we tend to give ourselves that which we really want or need. Some may think of this as a selfish post, but when we are happy and fulfilled, we are better for others.
So how can you gift yourself in ways that heighten your capacity and care for others. What can you do?
First, think about what it is that you really want or need. Then determine how those gifts will make you and others happy. After that, set up a time line for the gift giving.
If we only gift ourselves without regard for others, we'll end up empty, but if we gift ourselves in ways that make us stronger, healthier, happier, and better, we'll be able to support and give to others too.
So, in the year ahead, what gifts will you give yourself? Will the gift be a special adventure, meal, piece of furniture, house improvement, concert, or celebration? I like to plan those gifts for sometime in the future so that I can enjoy the anticipation as much as the gift itself. Plus, I find that when you are going to gift yourself something nice, it gives you the motivation to do the hard, important work in life. Onward.