Each time the family gathers, we try to do a good job. We consider all the factors at play including weather, number of people, time, energy, space, and more, then come up with a plan. After the event, we evaluate--what worked and what didn't?
Yesterday's Easter was a first without my mom. Clearly she was missed, yet we were able to pull together a traditional Easter dinner for 22 people at our childhood home. What worked well included preparing the foods at our own homes and just warming the foods up at Dad's, the pre-dinner hike, a variety of foods, drinks, and desserts, and plenty of space to sit, eat, and enjoy each other's company. Next time, I'd like to bring the volleyball and badminton sets.
One challenge is that when you're serving the meal, it's difficult to also visit, but I guess that's the dilemma for any host or hostess since there's lots to do when it comes to meal prep, serving, and clean-up.
As a child, I loved these family gatherings. I grew up spending every holiday with countless relatives. I loved the banter, games, play, delicious foods, and fun. I hope my family members felt the same way about our gatherings today. Onward.