Some of our shortcomings are invisible and others are obvious to all around us. I'm not sure which is worse. As for our invisible shortcomings, we often live with those in silence. No one has to know about those secret shortcomings you carry around with you everyday. Yet, for our obvious, visible shortcomings, the whole world is aware of those, and that's certainly not easy since you have to deal with the world's prejudices, advice, and reactions to those shortcomings. The truth is, however, that we all have some invisible and visible shortcomings that we have to deal with
As I think about those shortcomings today, I'm thinking about how to best deal with them in ways that they don't overtake your life. Ignoring your shortcomings is never a good response, but soley focusing on shortcomings is also not positive. As with all things in life, there's balance to be had with shortcomings too.
First, acknowledge the fact that we all have external and internal as well as visible and invisible shortcomings. That's part of being human.
Next, decide how you're going to deal with those shortcomings. Some shortcomings we simply can't change--that's who we are and who we'll always be, but with others, we can make significant changes to lessen the crippling effects of those shortcomings. Prioritize which shortcomings you'll work on and then make a plan. Often it's difficult to deal with your shortcomings on your own, and if possible it's great to get a coach or guide to help you deal with those challenges.
Then get to work in a balanced way so that you accept what you can't change and work on changing what you can. Yet, as you change, make sure your life makes space to recognize your strengths too--our strengths give us the courage, energy, and will to work on our weaknesses. Don't neglect your strengths and value those strengths.
We all live with shortcomings, and it's good to take a realistic approach towards those challenges. Onward.