It's easy to notice what bothers us about others. Traits that are uncomfortable, hurtful, or even repulsive sometimes rise to the surface in our relationships. Suprisingly, it's not always easy to notice the good in others even when they have lot of good traits. In situations like that, we may be dismissive or remiss when it comes to their positive traits. Yet, in every situation, it's a good practice to bring to mind people's positive traits before meeting up with them. In general, people have a lot more positive traits than negative traits. Onward.