Where do your commitments lie, and how do you honor those commitments?
I thought about this topic today as I thought about the large variety of ways that people in my life are moving in--in so many ways, this is a time of change. Why is change so evident now? Is it the result of the pandemic years? Is it the result of people's changes in jobs, relationships, health, or interests? Is it the result of changes in my life? The reality is that these changes are the result of a combination of all of the above.
Prior to this, there seemed to be a long period of sameness. During this period of less change, it was easier to honor and promote long held traditions and routines, but now during this period of change, it's time to do some deep thinking about what we're committed to and why. It's also important to think about what that looks like too.
Long held traditions that people continue to make time for are traditions I want to hold on to, and as for those traditions that people show less enthusiasm or interest in, that's where there's room for change.
Birthday celebrations
For my immediate family, I want to hold on to the traditions of celebrating birthdays. I think it's important to acknowledge people's special days in significant ways. This also gives some structure to the year as we move from birthday to birthday.
Holidays
I'd like to continue to celebrate the holidays too with the people I love. Having the home ready for holiday cheer is a good aim.
Adventures and Family Dinners
I love adventures far and near, and I love hosting my family for a dinner at home or at a restaurant. We'll continue those traditions.
To keep a family close demands commitment. Too much time can distance family members from one another. I'm commited to our family connections, so I'll do what I can to keep us close. Onward.